Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Malia's Labor and Delivery.. Test Run

So I'm new to this whole pregnancy and labor thing, right? I'm entitled to be unsure and confused as to what "real" labor is. I decided to practice the whole labor and delivery thing yesterday with Kirk and well, let's just say I do feel a lot more prepared as to what to expect.
I am 36 weeks along. The baby is probably around 6 pounds or so, and is fully developed. In my mind, she really could come at any point.
As I'm walking through Babies-R-Us yesterday I couldn't ignore the tremendous back pain I was feeling. Then, to make matters worse I had been having these dreadful cramps and shooting pains all over my stomach (called contractions I have learned). It was probably my fault for lifting heavy things all morning and moving furniture around the day before. But I can't help but feel like I am still able to do everything normal regardless of this basketball that sits in front of me. Doctor says I need to stop that.
Back to Babies-R-Us. I am pushing my cart around seeing what to get with some credit I had and I have to sit down. It KILLS! I am hunched over and trying to just sit it out. I get up after a while and it comes on strong again. I have to stop in my tracks and just stare into space. They are strong and painful and constant. I put away the things I wanted to buy and head to my car. I call Labor and Delivery and explain my symptoms: cramps all along my stomach, back pain that won't go away and difficulty walking around. I expected the nurse to say to drink some water, go sit down and relax but am shocked when she says, " you better come in right away. I will let them know you are coming and we'll admit you." UM EXCUSE ME??!!
So, I start balling and stressing out as I drive to the hospital in wonderful Southern California rush hour traffic on the 405. Kirk is composed and packs me a bag and meets me there.
I check in, they hook up baby monitors and a devise that shows the contractions. I am having them every 3-5 minutes. The midwife comes in and does the MOST PAINFUL examination I have ever had. The contractions become stronger and more frequent. Thanks a lot lady. Then they want me to walk the halls for 2 hours! I am dying. I am hungry, tired, and they won't let me eat or sit.
Hours and hours later they check me again. Cervix is a bit soft but totally closed. So I get to go home. It is like 11 pm. way past our bedtime.
Today I am still having contractions, and the doc says that I might not make my due date. I am supposed to take it easy for another week and then the baby is considered "full term" and can come whenever. Thank goodness I didn't have Malia yesterday. That would have been terrible since I am not ready for her.
I am in nesting mode hard drive now. I am doing laundry, more laundry, went to Babies-R-Us without a problem today, and am organizing and organizing. I feel like I am on meth or something.
So, that was a fun day. How was yours?

4 comments:

jenn (+ will) said...

okay WOW i am getting so excited!!!

Sarah said...

My day wasn't quite as eventful as yours. Got home from work to find out our dinner plans were postponed...due to the fact that a certain couple wouldn't be able to make pizza port because they were walking the halls of the hospital with contractions. What a coincidence huh? haha! Glad to hear your test run was just that. Next time i'll hope for a smooth "real deal". And so happy to know you and Malia are ok :)
xoxo

Mrs. Jones says said...

Oh crazy! I was hoping that she did not come this early. Glad you are still closed for business! Because we are having a fun shower for you on Sat. lady!! I hope you can still make it. Melinda has done a wonderful job getting it together, it is going to be cute! :)

kimberlee shaffer said...

oh man Chels, I really thought by the sounds of things that you were going to have her. I bet she will come SOON!